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Talking about sex with your partner can be really tricky. In many ways, sex should be just another part of your relationship — something you share together, and a means by which you connect — but for various reasons, it can often feel like a risky thing to try and discuss openly. Many people just find the topic awkward in general — they may not have grown up in an environment where sex was discussed frankly.


When you go on a date with someone, there are a lot of unknowns.

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Will you have chemistry? Will you actually like them? And, of course, what are their intentions?

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If you share their intentions, that's fantastic! But if, on the other hand, you are hoping it will lead to something more serious, then it's important to be able to pick up on the subtle — and not so subtle — s that they want this date to lead to one place only in as near a future as possible : The bedroom.

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The same holds true if you're only looking to hook up, because it's good to know when you're on the same. To help spot the s, I reached out the experts for their advice on what behaviors you'll notice in someone you're on a date with that tell you their goal is just sex.

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Next time you're out with someone and you're not totally sure what their intentions are, here is how the experts say you'll know. NYC relationship expert and love coach Susan Winter seconds that, adding a lack of patience whenever you start speaking is another red flag.

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There is an except to this, says Dorell: They could also try and control the conversation. It's not just about what your date won't talk about, it's also what they do have to say.

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Andrea Amourfounder and dating coach at UpDate Coaching, agrees. Is their idea of a date just going to their place?

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One of the ways that your date will communicate that they just want sex is that they will touch you a lotwarns Amour. If your date is showing any or all of these s, it's time to decide what it is that you want. That way, you can focus on the fun, not on what the other person is thinking.

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However, if you're really interested in the person, Dorell says direct communication is best. I'm also attracted to you if it's true but it's important to me that we get to know each other a bit more before we get intimate. If they insist, set that person free as they are saying that they are comfortable violating your boundaries.

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Ultimately, it just comes down to pursuing what you want — and then being honest about it, both with yourself and your date. Part of being empowered is being able to recognize where the other person is coming from.

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Kelly Gonsalves is a sex educator, relationship coach, and journalist.